I am a little late on this post but wanted to share it anyway. A couple weeks back Kyle had his Confirmation at our little Sacred Heart Church here in Bedford. Bishop Richard Pates came down to confirm Kyle and 7 other teenagers. Kyle, along with the others had been taking classes for the last six months.
Here is Kyle getting confirmed by the Bishop. Kyle's sponsor is a great friend of our family's.
Troy just graduated this year and has been a great friend of Kyle and Jessica's for a long time. Jessica and him went to Prom together her junior year and they attended Catholic Youth Conference together. He went with Kyle for his Confirmation Retreat. He has been such a great mentor for Kyle. I wish there were more young men out there like him.
Funny how things happen but the same week as Kyle's Confirmation I ran across this great blog post, at
super hero journal, blog of Andrea Scher. She talks about a transcript from a conversation with author,
Rachel Naomi Remen. I have one of her books,
Kitchen Table Wisdom, in my pile of books to read. Here is the exert from the conversation that she was talking about:
How we Serve
We don’t serve with our strength– that’s helping people.
We
don’t serve with our expertise — that’s fixing people.
We
actually serve with ourselves. We serve with everything we are.
Our wounds, our own wounds, are the source of our
compassion for the wounds of others. They make us gentle with the wounds of
others, and able to trust the mysterious process by which we heal. Not as a
theory, but as a lived experience.
Because we too are wounded, no wounded person needs to
be ashamed in our presence or a lesser person.
No wounded person is alone.
Our loneliness recognizes the loneliness in
others, despite the masks that everyone is wearing.
And it gives us the courage to reach out to others and
to be present with them as they find their way out of places of darkness and
constriction.
We are enough to make a change in the lives
of others.
Service is not something that you learn. It’s something
that you are.
-Rachel Naomi Remen
I love this and printed it out to put in our Project Life album. I thought this really summed up what Confirmation is all about. It pertains to our daily life as well. Sometimes I get tired and frustrated at my job,(I am a registered nurse at a hospital), sometimes I get tired and frustrated with all of the chores at home like the laundry, cooking and cleaning. This little exert puts things back into prospective, doesn't it.
It is in giving that we receive.
I hope that you all continue to have a great weekend!